How to stop being an AI doomer
Taking AI risk seriously and living a normal life are not opposites. Here is how to hold both.
You don't have to convince yourself that AI is safe to stop feeling doomed. What helps is separating the question nobody can settle today (how AI turns out) from the things you can act on now: how much news you take in, sleep, the people around you, and one useful action. If the worry is getting in the way of everyday life, talk to a doctor or therapist.
What the evidence says
Worrying about AI is not a fringe reaction. In May 2023, AI scientists and industry leaders including Geoffrey Hinton, Yoshua Bengio, Demis Hassabis and Sam Altman signed a one-line statement that "mitigating the risk of extinction from AI should be a global priority alongside other societal-scale risks such as pandemics and nuclear war."1 In a 2024 Pew Research Center survey, 51% of US adults said they were more concerned than excited about AI, compared with 15% of the AI experts Pew surveyed.2
But nobody knows how this ends. In a survey of 2,778 researchers who had published at top AI venues, between 38% and 51% gave at least a 10% chance to advanced AI leading to outcomes as bad as human extinction. Most were highly uncertain, and they disagreed about whether faster or slower progress would be better for humanity.3 Read plainly, the evidence supports neither "we are definitely doomed" nor "there is nothing to worry about". It supports uncertainty, which is harder to live with, and is the thing worth learning to manage.
The NHS suggests sorting worries into two kinds: problems you can do something practical about, and "hypothetical worries" that are beyond your control. For the second kind, its advice is to acknowledge them and move your attention on, rather than going over them again and again. It also suggests a short daily "worry time" of 10 or 15 minutes to write worries down and look for solutions.4 When the future feels uncertain, the NHS advises focusing on the day-to-day and on "what's in your power to do right now".5
The CDC's advice for coping with stress includes taking breaks from news and social media ("it is good to be informed, but constant information about negative events can be upsetting"), talking with people you trust about how you feel, regular sleep and physical activity.6
A useful comparison comes from climate change, another large, slow-moving global risk. In a survey of 10,000 people aged 16 to 25 in ten countries, 59% were very or extremely worried about climate change and more than 45% said those feelings affected their daily life and functioning. The researchers found that distress was linked to how people saw the response to the problem, not only to the problem itself.7 Feeling heavy about a real, shared risk is understandable. It becomes a problem for you when it stops you living your life.
The US National Institute of Mental Health advises getting help if you are struggling to cope, if symptoms of stress or anxiety won't go away, or if they interfere with your everyday life.8
- Whether superintelligence gets built, and when
- What AI companies and governments decide next
- The exact odds of the worst outcomes
- How much AI news you read, and when
- Sleep, meals and moving your body today
- Who you talk to about how you feel
What you can do
Five steps, smallest first. You don't need all of them.
- [1]Name the worry, then sort it2 minutesWrite the worry down and ask: is there something practical I can do about this? If yes, plan one small step. If no, it is a hypothetical worry. Notice it, and bring your attention back to what you are doing.4
- [2]Give it a fixed worry time10 to 15 minutesSet a short time each day to write worries down and look for solutions. When doom thoughts come up outside that time, note them for later.4
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- [4]Say it out loud to someone you trustTodayTalk with a friend or family member about how you are feeling, not only about the arguments.6
- [5]Get help if it won't let goWhen you need itIf the worry won't go away or is getting in the way of work, sleep or relationships, talk to a doctor or therapist.8 If you are in crisis, call or text 988 in the US, or see Get support for other countries.
Sources
How we choose sources- [1]Statement on AI Risk · Center for AI Safety · primary source · accessed 2026-10-15
- [2]How the U.S. Public and AI Experts View Artificial Intelligence (April 3, 2025) · Pew Research Center · survey · accessed 2026-10-15
- [3]Thousands of AI Authors on the Future of AI (Grace et al.) · arXiv · survey · accessed 2026-10-15
- [4]Tackling your worries · NHS Every Mind Matters · health guidance · accessed 2026-10-15
- [5]How to deal with change and uncertainty · NHS Every Mind Matters · health guidance · accessed 2026-10-15
- [6]Managing Stress · Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) · health guidance · accessed 2026-10-15
- [7]Climate anxiety in children and young people and their beliefs about government responses to climate change: a global survey (Hickman et al., 2021) · The Lancet Planetary Health · peer reviewed · accessed 2026-10-15
- [8]I'm So Stressed Out! Fact Sheet · National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) · health guidance · accessed 2026-10-15